self-compassion & right brain planning

  • Right brain planning is a daily practice for me because:
    • it is a form of prayer and meditation: [naming + listening]
      • a way to clarify my hopes, desires and fears
    • it is a practice that enables me to [define + hone] my priorities—and live more of what matters most to me

“Here I am to proclaim that I’ve yet to encounter a feeling that can’t be softened by making something.” -Caitlin Metz

  • We view ourselves with an “all or nothing” 😱 lens: we “forget” that everything cycles like 🌙 the moon.
    • Everything changes and everything is simply a phase that we cycle through.
  • We believe we are “the only one” with situations like ours (and then we begin to isolate 🫣 ourselves).
  • We self-loath and slip into a shame 😔 spiral: we begin to believe that “if only” we had […] then we wouldn’t be in the situation we are in (feeling the feelings we are feeling).
page 29, Feel Something, Make Something

“I sharpen my sensitivity to the quiet whispers of my body and mind every time I create work in collaboration with the feelings and sensations resonating inside.” -Caitlin Metz

  • This is include making marks and keeping pen-to-paper as you let “the thing you are doing be nothing” (Lynda Barry):
  • “Sometimes we are so confused and sad that all we can do is glue one thing to another. Use white glue and paper from the trash, glue paper onto paper, glue scraps and bits of fabric, have a tragic movie playing in the background, have a comforting drink nearby, let the thing you are doing be nothing, you are making nothing at all, you are just keeping your hands in motion, putting one thing down and then the next thing down and sometimes crying in between.” -Lynda Barry

“Self-compassion is one of the easiest ways to shift your mental health.” -Kristin Neff

Right brain planning ensures I am able to:

  • keep going + devote attention to what I need and desire
  • have a dated and sequential chronicle of my living
  • process what I am feeling + have a chronicle of what I gave my time and energies to
  • have monthly themes, keywords and prompts to use as needed

  • Le Cunff cites these three mindsets as: the cynical mindset, the escapist mindset, and the perfectionist mindset.

Because our mindset determines so-o many different parts of our living, these particular mindsets lock us in a loop of performance and perfection.

  • It promotes using our journals as our planners: incorporating art journaling techniques—such as doodling, painting, collage work and “gluebooking”—with seasonal or lunar prompts to notice + track our rhythms and habits.

“Instead of letting a difficult emotion take over your focus, attention, and precious mental bandwidth, you are instead choosing to step back and make space for the feeling to coexist with you so that you can use your time and energy for something more productive.” -Emily Hu

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