spaciousness (mindfulness & ongoingness)

“Owning our stories means acknowledging our feelings and wrestling with the hard emotions—our fear, anger, aggression, shame, and blame. This isn’t easy, but the alternative—denying our stories and disengaging from emotion—means choosing to live our entire lives in the dark. It means no accountability, no learning, no growth.” -Brené Brown

“The thing about working with time, instead of against it [is] that it is not wasted. Even pain counts.” -Ursula K. Le Guin

“You need to claim the events of your life to make yourself yours.” -Florida Scott-Maxwell

  • This also means I remain open and curious to what is different than I imagined and hoped to be experiencing at this stage of my life. 🦄
  • Turning the 🔺🔻 kaleidoscope of my life means I continue to define (redefine) my life as it is now, as I am now.

“Perhaps all anxiety might derive from a fixation on moments—an inability to accept life as ongoing.” -Sarah Manguso

“It’s like nature has sent us all to our rooms to have a good hard look at ourselves. [COVID] was an interruption. It got us to pause and question our lives. … [Offering] an invitation, an opportunity to reimagine a more connected, entirely-not-normal, joyous path forward.” -Sarah Wilson

Time is continuous (even when we feel paused). Life is ongoing (even when we feel stalled or are consumed with doubt about our tomorrows).

  • My right brain planning practice (self-compassion + expression via mindfulness, journaling and holding space within the pauses of my days) helps me to continuously see my life from a new and healing perspective.
    • I can see everything I have ignored out of necessity—and I gain insight about what I can choose not to live (endure; tolerate).
  • The past two years have been a glorious and continuous reconstruction.
    • A long-awaited (life-altering) tipping point after years of guided art therapy and faithful support from my partner, my adult children and kindred friends.

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